Saturday, June 4, 2011

Listography - Decisions

This week Listography is inspired by the amazing Christine Mosler at Thinly Spread. If you have been living under a rock with an eye patch on each eye and bananas in your ears you may not have heard about the Save the Children 'No Child Born To Die' campaign. If this is the case please click this link immediately to sign the petition before coming back here to read on.

Off you go now.

All done? Ok, to continue....Christine is currently in Mozambique raising awareness for the campaign. When I read her original post 'Leaping Out Of My Comfort Zone' about receiving the email requesting her to go on the trip I immediately thought of the huge weight that must have been placed on her shoulders. She wrote 'My heart has been beating like a drum and my brain on over drive ever since the email landed in my in box on 27th April as I was cooking the children’s tea. Life changes in a heartbeat. I have been given an amazing opportunity to make a difference.'

So being the amazing person that she is she made the brave decision to go, and is currently doing a fabulous job of raising awareness and promoting the Save the Children Petition. This week one of her blog posts was picked up by the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation and was featured on their front page. Powerful stuff.

Which brings me to this weeks Listography - Top 5 Decisions I'm Glad I Made.

Here's mine:

1. Going to University.

My lovely Uni.

I was lucky enough not to have had to make too many big decisions in my life before leaving school. Choosing my University was probably my first, possibly-life-changing decision.  The University that I chose, or rather that chose me, was far enough from home that I had to live away and close enough that I could come home every weekend. It's where I drank too much cider, listened to too much Pink Floyd, kissed too many boys and went to too few lectures. This is also where I got the opportunity to:

2. Go to Mexico.
Sent by the University as part of a group working with the people who lived in the shanty towns of a border town. It turned out to be one of the best things I've ever done. Amongst other things I taught some English, played some sports, got taxis with old women carrying live chickens, acted as a dental assistant and drove a pickup truck with 20 kids in the back  I went back a few years later to visit the people I'd met and worked with but I'd forgotten all my Spanish by then so there was a lot of sitting in rooms smiling and nodding at each other.

3. Leaving my cushy job and going to Australia.
Oh dear, I hadn't actually realised before I stated this that it would turn into my personal travelogue...sorry about that. Anyway, I went to Australia at 25, met my husband and had the best time of my life. Not much more to say about that.

4.  Having my kids when I did.
I had my first child at 30 and squeezed in another 2 in the next 4 years. It was a little hairy for awhile there (insert your own joke here) but the youngest will be 3 this year and I finally feel like I'm out of the woods. Fabulous at 40? Bring it on.



5. Starting my blog.
Who could have known that such a little decision would be so life changing? I love my blog. I love lots of other blogs. I love the fact that I'm going to meet loads of other bloggers this month at Cybermummy. I love the opportunities it brings to my mailbox and I love the fact that I am building a role working for myself. I also love your comments so don't be shy now :)



So now it's time to tell me your Top 5 Decisions. Just write your post on your own blog and then come back here to enter your details in the linky below. (And don't forget to throw in a mention to Save the Children!)

38 comments :

  1. Great subject, Kate. Food for thought while I'm scootering the kids round the park later. I love the idea that whatever decision you made turned out to be the right one. So many of us put off making the big decisions because we're scared they won't work out, but making those decisions are the very things that become part of our life story.
    I love your decisions, though not so sure about the one you made to slice some banana into the coffee you spilled on the saucer but, hey, each to their own.

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  2. Brilliant subject. Starting my blog would be at number 6 I think :)

    Glad you have made good decisions, especially the Australia one.

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  3. Great theme and answers, Kate!

    Mine are actually pretty similar to yours.

    SSG xxx

    Sydney Shop Girl blog

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  4. It's funny how Australia changed your life, but was the exact opposite for me. I also have found blogging to be a fantastic decision to make but didn't want to nab yours obviously!:-) x

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  5. Awwwwwh!! This entry gave me a nice warm fuzzy feeling. You're really sweet underneath it all eh? ;-)

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  6. Very inspiring Listography this week. Really made me think and reflect on some of the decisions I've made in my life. Good choice!

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  7. OK...I doubled up on the starting a blog decision! But I'd have never have discovered you and your Listography if I hadn't started blogging...it had to feature!!!

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  8. Alma - I'm not sure what you are insinuating...?
    Wendy - Well I guess that's allowed then ;)

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  9. I love your decisions.

    I deliberately wrote mine before I read anyone elses because I didn't want to be influenced. Still amazing how there are so many similarities...!

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  10. Cor blimey, Kate! This one is HARD. One reason I guess is that I'm not one for making big decisions or for planning my life and career. I've drifted; gone with the flow. OK, maybe I could have got a higher-powered job, better salary & pension, bigger house, whatever. But drifting has been a lot less stressful and kept that work-life balance, well balanced.

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  11. You're right Keith - riches don't have to be monetary!

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  12. Hi Kate! I said I'd take part and a wet Sunday is the perfect time, if a bit late. Loved this theme :)

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  13. What a challenging list to compile! I found it hard to think of five. Thanks for making me think :)

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  14. Oh Kate I love this weeks theme and I really enjoyed reading through your decisions...Fab!

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  15. Hi Kate

    I have been visiting and reading and today with your post really wanted to play along.

    Thank you.

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  16. I love how travel gives the opportunity to experience life and also the chance to make a turning point. Mexico sounds like an eyeopener, how fantastic.

    Participating in this challenge has made me see that I am pathetic at making decisions and I am a scaredy cat in the face of risk or change. Loser fail! Thanks for the challenge though, I need to make some changes and be more confident when opportunities arise.

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  17. Deux chiens - delighted to have you on board. I always love to see new entries. Merci!

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  18. Fab post. A few of those are on my list too :-)

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  19. Great reasons :)

    It's funny, I often think about how my life has taken dramatic turns after certain decisions I've made. Think I might have to do my own list later though it may bear some similarity to yours! (In a similar decisions rather than a plagiarist kind of way :D xX

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  20. Look at you pretending you are posh and eat your banana with a fork!

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  21. Great Listography really made me think about whey I have made certain decisions x

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  22. I don't always manage to do a list each week as I often struggle with what to write, but this week it was easy and I really enjoyed joining in and reading about other peoples lives. I too was 30 when I had my first baby and turned 40 last year....it's not that bad!
    x

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  23. ooh I'm definitely going to try and join in with this one. I'm with you on the popping out three kids in early thirties (although I'm 35, so pushing the definition slightly.) Can I sign up to the fab at 40 club?

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  24. And how much I learned from you! And hairy, yes. Yes I can imagine. Actually don't need to imagine. It comes down to good childcare and a good bikini wax...

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  25. Great list. I think going to university would be on my list of wrong decisions; for me, it was not an enjoyable or valuable experience, or hasn't proved to be so far.

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  26. Fabulous decisions...

    Now... what would mine be... Best get writing! x

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  27. Sometimes it feels like even the little things are great decisions... like deciding to put the washing out even tho it looks like rain... and then it gets all warm and your pants smell like sunshine. Good decision.

    I've tried to include some 'biggies' in my list ;) x

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  28. This was very thought provoking, as some of the others have already said, thinking of five is harder than you'd think.

    xx

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  29. I think I found out more about myself just thinking about this one Kate! ~ Christine xx

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  30. I sat for the longest time thinking about this one. Working out which turning points in my life were because of circumstance or actual decisions I had made. It made me realise just how much I've changed my life in the last 10 years! A fantastic exercise.

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  31. Did my own little spin on it! Great topic tho!

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  32. This topic really made me think and reflect and all in a good way, I kind of happened upon this and think I will carry on... thank you for the inspiration, I'm looking forward to next week's list

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  33. Hi Kate! How are you? Thanks so much for another great topic. Really had to put my thinking cap on. Another good topic would be to list the best decisions we wished we didn't make. I think having kids would make it on both lists! LOL

    Anne @ Domesblissity

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  34. Wow, great topic. I am writing my 5 right now and will link up for the very first time! Thanks for the inspiration. I needed it. Feeling a bit in a rut with blog writing right now.

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  35. I decided to get back on my blog, I totally missed May, I guess that's having a 10 month old that doesn't want go to bed, but I'm determined to keep at it this time! X

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  36. It's been quite a week and it took me four times to get it done. But I did it! Thanks for the inspiration.

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  37. I loved this one Kate, and silly me forgot to add my details into the link. Ugh. All yours were fabulous.

    Here is Mine, from a week ago. http://bitchinglass.blogspot.com/2011/06/another-one-yes-please.html

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